Free Childcare for Millennial Parents

If you’ve got a toddler or preschooler, finding quality childcare is probably an ongoing concern. Millennials spend more time with their children than any previous generation, and with their flexible work schedules, they need childcare that works for them. When my girls were toddlers, I set up childcare in my home so I could be with them yet still have the ability to work in my home office. By having childcare in my home, I customized a program that my girls loved and met all of my high expectations for academics, socialization, and exercise!

First, I created a curriculum that made learning how to read, do math, and play with science FUN! Then I added games, activities, and field trips.  Knowing what my girls loved to do, it was easy to create a monthly plan.

Second, I invited a couple of children (the same ages) to join my girls. Their families paid tuition, which paid for the teacher who ran the program – right here in my rec. room.  So, I got FREE childcare in my home! It was amazing. 

Third, I set the schedule to meet my needs.  Because I worked from home, I didn’t need childcare at 6:00 am.  Instead, my girls slept in.  I set hours for preschool to work around my schedule. It worked so well that I had the teacher come early to make breakfast, do the laundry, and get dinner started.  After the program ended, she would clean the house and prepare dinner.

I guess I was a millennial before my time! By having free childcare in my home, I enjoyed being with my girls throughout the day and I ran a successful business in my home office.  I just wrote the 2nd edition of my book that shows millennials how to set up a program for their families.  Check out The Millennial’s Guide to Free Child Care in Your Home.


Recycling Tips You Probably Didn't Know!

Being married to a “tree hugger” for over 30 years, you would think I’d know what is recyclable and what isn’t.  Right?  When in doubt, I’d just toss it in the recycle container so I wouldn’t feel guilty throwing into the trash…  A new report by Global Citizen states that there’s been an 84% increase in what is REJECTED for recycling!

Here’s what can be recycled:

- Recyclable containers that are NOT contaminated by food (wash out plastic bottles and tin cans)

- Cardboard containers (pizza boxes) need to be free of oil and food

- Plastic bottle tops (remove caps from the bottle)

- Recyclable coffee cups

- Cups WITHOUT a thin layer of polyethylene (use metal or ceramic reusable cups instead)

Here’s what CAN’T be recycled:

- Kleenex tissues

- Containers contaminated by food waste

- Toothpaste tubes

- Plastic toys

- Wrapping paper

- Mylar food bags (chips)

- Anything that is put in plastic bags to recycle

- Batteries (take to Household Waste Collection centers)

- Any food waste: eggshells, peels, compost

- Old clothes

Use reusable items when possible.  When you do need to recycle, do it properly.  Just be sure that no items that have been contaminated by food end up in your recycle bin!  Happy Earth Day!


Eat a Peach, From My Garden!

Five years after we planted 17 new fruit trees, we finally got a bumper crop of peaches.  We harvested our first batch recently.  There’s nothing as wonderful as biting into a perfectly ripened peach that you just picked off your tree!  They’re beautiful, juicy, and sweet! 

100% organic with no pesticides!  Surprisingly, the bugs and birds didn’t get to them before we did this year. 

Come on over for some fresh peaches and peach pies!


Changing It Up; Bright Colors!

I’m a simple person.  I don’t have fancy furniture; I build functional pieces that have specific purposes. And, I keep my furniture because they have that function and sentimental value.  I built my bed 37 years ago when I couldn’t afford a bedroom set.  It is one piece of furniture that has 14 drawers, 8 cubbies, 3 storage spaces (for skis and equipment) and a huge space for luggage and quilts. I even need a step stool to get into it because it’s over 3-feet high!  Back in the 70’s, it even held a waterbed.  Yup! A waterbed…

After 20 years with the same upholstery, I changed it up with an expressionist twist of bright color strokes. I searched for this in every fabric and upholstery store in the Bay Area and Santa Cruz for months. I love the way it brightens the room and it makes me happy when I wake up in the morning.   Now I think I’m set for another 20 years!


Worried About Retirement Benefits?

Did you know that you can check your social security benefits online?  It’s easy to do.

I never understood social security benefits because I always thought that is was something that “old people” without retirement plans relied on.  Now with the new administration seriously tampering with taxes and benefits, I checked into it. 

You can see what your social security benefit will be (after retirement) right now!  You can see what benefits you will receive based on retiring at ages 62, 66, and 70.   You can even see disability benefits and what your children can expect to receive.

You can also update your information on this site.  Good news: it’s free to use. 

Check it out!


Rice Krispies Treat Easter Village

Getting ready for Easter Egg hunts and games – yes, with my adult children (Jaclyn and friends), and dogs! 

This year I designed an Easter Village using Rice Krispies and pretzels for structures and landscaping. 

I had so much fun, I could have built an entire city! 

Already have ideas for my next Rice Krispies project!



Use a Swiffer? Use This Tip to Save Money and Protect the Environment!

I like clean hardwood floors, but with 2 giant puppies that roll around the hillside and bring in what seems like piles of dirt, it’s impossible to keep the floors clean for long.  I’ve tried every kind of mop on the market and they’re either cumbersome to use or they require disposable pads that go against my environmental philosophy. 

Considering that I need to mop a couple times a day, I preferred the Swiffer because it is lightweight and easy to use – don’t need any heavy buckets. But, the ridiculous design requires you to throw away your Swiffer sheet after each use! I refused to succumb to adding more waste to the landfill and lining Proctor & Gamble with weekly repeat sales. Replacement sheets cost about .25.  For me, that would be $180/year!

My solution = use reusable sheets!

By cutting up a couple of old towels and sheets, I have a month’s supply of sheets that I can reuse for years!  It didn’t cost me a penny and they actually work better than the Swiffer sheets!  My "new" old towel sheets are heavier so they pick up sand and debris, and they clean up spills in a jiff!

I’m so excited to have solved my Swiffer dilemma that I have made reusable sheets for my girls too!  Not sure they’ll be as excited as I am, but I’m glad that we’ll all be sending a little less to the landfills and saving a few dollars.  


Every Kid Should Learn How to Build

My friend called me in a panic because her husband, a surgeon, had just attempted to “fix” their toilet and water was going everywhere.  She told me that while he was a brilliant surgeon, that’s where the brilliance ended because he knew nothing about common sense things.  Wow!  Today it seems that we are labeled and categorized to fit into specific places. We are neither expected nor taught to expand our understanding of basic survival skills.

Since the Industrial Revolution, we’ve become a society of assembly lines. We specialize in one skill, and then that’s all we do.  If we were robots, that would be the logical and practical way to utilize our time.  But we live in homes that have electrical and plumbing hidden behind sheetrock, and walls built with 2” by 4” on 16” centers.  We’re never officially taught how houses are built so when there is a plumbing problem, we call the plumber.  Electrical problem, an electrician.

Not knowing how things work around your house can make you feel incompetent.  Having to call in a contractor every time you need some minor work done is time consuming and costly. I think all students should spend a summer working with a building contractor to learn the inner workings of a house or building.  It would help students build a sense of independence and confidence.

For Christmas one year, I gave my girls tool kits complete with electric drills, Dremel tools, hammers, screwdrivers, measuring tapes, and anything I could fit in the tool box. While they weren’t thrilled with these gifts back then, I’ve noticed that they keep it handy in their homes today, and I’m glad to see that they know how to use their tools.

When they were in high school, they built their own vanities for their bedrooms one summer.  They learned how to use a saber saw to cut the shape, a router to round the corners, and a belt sander to smooth the surface.  Rob showed them how to wire 7 light bulbs around the mirror. 

I learned how to build furniture by getting tips from the guys at San Lorenzo Lumber.  I buy all of my materials from them because their staff (Mario and Craig are my favorites) are incredibly knowledgeable and helpful.  I’ve built 90% of my home and office furniture since 1976.  I love to design furniture because I get exactly what I want with the safe materials I prefer (no particle board or Masonite!).

Wouldn’t it be ideal for students to learn how to build a house and how to use power and hand tools before they move out to live on their own? Most students barely know how to handle a hammer and certainly don’t understand how to build furniture or any phases of building construction. We certainly want our kids to be able to troubleshoot problems in their future homes, right?


What Kids Should Know Before Getting Behind The Wheel

I remember when I got my first car.  I learned how to tune it up, change the fan belt, and change the oil and filters. I even rebuilt my 4-cylinder engine just to make sure I understood how the internal combustion engine worked – my father had one of his mechanics guide me through the process. It gave me great satisfaction to know when the carburetor needed adjusting and that I could maintain my car by myself.  Of course that was back in 1973 when cars were much simpler than they are today.

Remember when schools had auto shops? Schools have stopped offering these courses for several reasons: (1) to save money on building shops and outfitting them with the equipment and materials needed for these specialty classes; and (2) students (or their parents) are more interested in taking rigorous academic classes to stack their transcripts with AP courses to impress college admissions officers.

When my girls got their first cars, I created an auto shop class for them at Merit Academy where they learned everything they needed to know before they got behind the wheel.  They learned how to change the oil and filter, rotate tires, and check fluids and lubrication.  They also spent the day with an automatic transmission specialist to see the inner workings of a transmission. Other field trips included watching a car get smog tested, talking to a woman from Mother’s Against Drunk Driving (MADD), and visiting a rehab center where they met with paraplegic and quadriplegic teen survivors. 

At the end of the class, they met with a CHP officer to see what happens if they are pulled over for being under the influence of alcohol or drugs.  The officer actually handcuffed them after making them walk a straight line wearing vision-altering glasses.  Each student took CPR and First Aid at the American Red Cross as the final requirement for the course.

Driving a car requires maturity that most 16 year olds don’t have, but giving them an education and hands-on learning experiences so they know how to handle their cars gives them the foundation to make smart decisions. Since everyone drives a vehicle, shouldn’t schools offer classes to teach the students more than traffic rules?